Showing posts with label acquaintances. Show all posts
Showing posts with label acquaintances. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

When Does An Acquaintance Become A Friend?

There are some people who we refer to as our acquaintances and there are others who we will say are not really our friends or enemies (I guess they fall in between). The big question today is when does your acquaintance become your friend?...and I mean true friend. There are no easy answers as friendships are complex but trust is an important ingredient. If you can be yourself with your friend and share with them important things about yourself that no others know then you are on the way to friendship. Friendship isn't just about the good times, it's also about holding each other up and helping each other be the best person they can be without expecting anything in return but yet receiving it.

Thursday, September 26, 2013

You Will and Can Become Whoever You Surround Yourself With

Ask yourself who do you spend the most time with? These are people whose thoughts, actions, and words can begin to become  a part of you. Sometimes even couples begin to look like each other after being together for a long time. Sometimes we think we are immune to the negative influence of others. Don't be too proud about your standards because you might fall so learn to create balance by surrounding yourself with people who can complement your strengths and weaknesses. That way you can grow but keep hang around people who don't complement you and don't be surprised if you end up shrinking or shriveling away.