Enemies and Frenemies

It is good to have enemies and frenemies. These people can teach you to be a better person. Their actions will challenge you and help you know how to balance your life. And guess what? They could even one day turn into your friends.

Making Up and Breaking Up in Relationships

Your enemies of today might be your closest friends tomorrow. And, don't be a bit surprised if that opposite occurs. The earth goes round and round and so can your relationships.

Irony in Life

Life is so ironic. Sometimes your worst enemy  can become your closest friend and the opposite is also true. Don't just disrespect people around you because of who they are today. Be wise and know that the way things are today will not always be the same.

What Makes You Tick?

How would you describe yourself in one word? How do you think your loved ones would in one word?  What about your enemies? The key is that you have to know thyself in and out. Don't be afraid to explore who you are or what you are. I think I tick because I am passionate. What about you all my readers?

When Does An Acquaintance Become A Friend?

There are some people who we refer to as our acquaintances and there are others who we will say are not really our friends or enemies (I guess they fall in between). The big question today is when does your acquaintance become your friend?...and I mean true friend. There are no easy answers as friendships are complex but trust is an important ingredient. If you can be yourself with your friend and share with them important things about yourself that no others know then you are on the way to friendship. Friendship isn't just about the good times, it's also about holding each other up and helping each other be the best person they can be without expecting anything in return but yet receiving it.

Wishing The Best or Worst On Your Worst Enemies...???

Countries have enemies, people have enemies, families have enemies and even co-workers have enemies. It all depends on your definition of an enemy. An enemy can be anyone who wishes the worst for you or who you wish the worst for. What is the point of all this? We all need each other and even if not now we will someday. Let us learn to be respectful and agree to disagree instead of chaining ourselves and others in enmity.

Reasons to Forgive your Enemies

We all have names for them...some call them enemies and some call them frenemies. Whatever you call them I am sure we can all agree that there are people in our lives who have wronged us. The cycle will never end and we might eventually end up hurting some. Here are some reasons to remind you to forgive regardless of the circumstances:

• Frees you from a cycle of negativity
• Gives you the wisdom to learn the lesson from the pain
• Reminds you that you might also need someone's forgiveness one day
• It is one of the greatest acts of love
• You never know the future as one day your enemy might turn out to be your best friend or your boss