Your Attitude Thermostat and Thermometer

Sometimes it's not about what you are doing or not doing do but simply your attitude. Your attitude can be the difference between a smile or a frown on someone's face. You can choose to be a thermostat instead of a thermometer.

The Power of a Smile

Sometimes all you need to do is smile. People notice when you are and when you aren't. A smile can make your day bright and even brighter for someone else. And, it doesn't have to be a fake or plastic smile. Just smile because you are grateful to be alive and there is hope for a better tomorrow starting today.

Remember to Hold On

When you are at your lowest point remember to hold on. You are about to experience something wonderful. Yes because even out of life's greatest pains such as child birth you can birth some of your greatest experiences in life.

Balancing your Personal and Professional Life

Do you know how to separate your personal life from your professional life? Sometimes you have to and sometimes you don't. Just make sure that you maintain balance on all sides of your life. Don't let the personal destroy the professional and the opposite is true.

Accepting your Strengths and Weaknesses

Don't be too harsh on yourself. If you continue to be that way you might end up even diminishing your greatest potential strengths. Accept yourself in totality...that is your strengths and weaknesses.

Learning About Your Attitude

How would you describe your attitude in one word? Not the one that you show the world but the attitude you keep internally just to yourself? Don't lie to yourself. Be authentic and will help you to get where you need to get. Remember that attitude makes the difference.

Pessimism is Blinding

Don't just say that you can't do something. Act and do something about it. How many ways have you tried to overcome your fears? How many people have you asked for help?  Don't dance with the idea of things being impossible. Be brave and act even when you are at your lowest point. You will be surprised that is was your pessimism blinding you from the one step of victory you had to take to accomplish your goals.

Every day is Precious

Every day is precious. Don't waste your day in negativity. Use each day wisely and make the most of it by being positive:)))

Be a Rock

Sometimes all it takes is an extra bit of faith. You never know when things will change. And don't forget to be that rock for someone else.

Guns and Triggers

Everybody has a different thing that motivates them to act the way they do. It is easy for good company to be corrupted and that is why you hardly hear anyone being told to guard their bad habits. So don't allow negativity to pervade your life, in a nutshell, remember the anonymous words ..."Don't let people get to you. They can't pull the trigger if you don't hand them the gun."

Allowing Yourself to be You

Different cultures have their expectations of what attitudes are viewed favorably. Such national attitudes can directly or indirectly influence the way you act. Even smaller groups like your co-workers, friends, and relatives can shape the way you see things. Learn to see things through others eyes but don't lose yourself and become blind in the process.

The Power of your Attitude

There is a price today that we pay because of what we did in the past. Sometimes its something that was done by someone else. At the end of the day, the denominator is your attitude. Your reaction to what is in your present will determine your future.

Self-Jeopardization and you

You need to take time to understand who you are. Think about what makes you mad, sad, angry, happy, passionate and more. If you neglect the art of self-awareness you run the risk of jeopardizing your life by doing things that aren't you.

The Beauty of Gratitude

Some people say well I will be grateful after I get this or that. Wait a minute. Your inner attitude shouldn't depend on your external circumstances. You need to be thankful and joyful regardless of what is around and that will stay with you through the good times and bad times.

Try Again

Have you tried once and failed? There is a beauty in trying a second time. You will be more prepared and you never know what miracle can occur. Don't be afraid to try again.

How to Set Goals

You don't have to know what you want to do for the next five or ten years. We all think differently. Just have a plan and remember to work your way through it while figuring out what to align as short term or long term goals. Don't just worry yourself about things that are bound to happen in the future because change is inevitable.

Are you a Hypocrite?

You might say that you don't like noise but yet you are the most noisiest person. Isn't it hypocritical to expect something from others while you are not doing that very thing? The noise example is just a simple way to think of it but there are many angles to the idea of being hypocritic. All in all,  you have to check yourself and figure out what you want the most from others and find ways to give it to other people.

Learning to Chill

Have you ever realized that you were blindly doing something? How did you feel in that moment? You might have told yourself that you could have done better. That is true but it is also true that no matter how much effort you put there is always more that you could be doing....so just chill.

How To Have Positive Thoughts

Why is pessimism so attractive? Even young children pick up on it and can act that way if their parents are like that. You have to remind yourself that you consciously don't want any negativity. Make it your goal to see the light in the midst of the tunnel.

How To Accept Yourself

Why do you want something that isn't yours? Why do you want someone's looks, job, grades, clothes, or more? Do you know that you are perfect just the way you are? Learn to accept yourself because no matter how much you have you will be envious if you never remedy your heart with self-acceptance.