Thursday, May 30, 2013
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
In life for everything we want or desire to be, there is something that needs to be overcome. As others might say; It is not enough to simply preach something...you gotta do it! If doing it means going against your fears and expectations just do it...even when no one believes you...do it!So you gotta remember to stand up for yourself in order to get where you wanna get. Also, try to use words sparingly so your actions can be louder and try to find the magic of faith so that you can overcome negative feelings and achieve your dreams.
No one knows everything about life but I guess we can all agree that life has its fair share of trials. Whenever you are faced with painful moments remember to care for yourself so much to the extent that you decide to let it go. There is always some pain in life....even from the beginning and any baby being pushed out of the womb's comfort can tell you that. So now that you are in the world just remember that everything is not gonna be all easy,....but you have to stay steady like a strong rock you gonna make it baby.
There are seven days in a week ...it's that number that signals completion. Well there is no other better way to go into today's quote than remembering that. Every day of our life we are faced with different things ....some are even from our past. Of course, we also run into the same people while meeting new people who we have good times with as well as bad times. This is all in the cycle called life.So remember to live your life your way no matter what...because at the end of the day you got to do you.
Everybody is looking for something or at least someone in life. But there is no formula how to get there. Now and then people will come up with snippets of knowledge that seem practical and are indeed useful. Just remember that you have to stand up for you and take care of you well enough as that will help you to help others....and of course accomplish whatsoever is your life's purpose. So go for it, ask about it and step forward this week:)
Difficulties are an inescapable part of life. It is simply anything that challenges you when you are trying to move from one point to another in almost any aspect of your life. Such times are not there in vain...difficult moments at times can help us to learn more about the essence of ourselves and others. So when in difficult times don't forget to use it is as a learning moment.
Friday, May 24, 2013
Whether you believe in a spiritual being or not it is possible that you have faced a moment when you were so blessed and yet had so many troubles with people. It is something we don't like to think of but being aware that people aren't sometimes sincerely happy with your successes can save you some strife. And even if you are on the other end, don't hate as everyone has their own time of blessing.
Thursday, May 23, 2013
We usually hear about marriage every day. Everyone seems to have their own idea of what it takes to make a good marriage. At the end of the day you just have to decide what tips to take or leave. There is no universal formula for success in marriage but take heart you can make your own unique formula for your ideal marriage.
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
Perseverance is a critical part of life. Some stuff are meant to be given to us but not everything. There is a time you have to work to earn that which you deeply need. Even when its get hard...keep going. You will be surprised with the amazing results you can get after holding on to the very last minute. So keep going!
Have you ever faced one of those moments when you wished life was easier? Well life has its own twists and turns for its very own reasons. Sometimes you have to experience setbacks in order to move forward and even sometimes you have to experience hate in order to love. So just be patient and learn from whatever life places in your way.
Monday, May 20, 2013
What does an attitude mean? Have you heard people say more often she has an attitude than he has an attitude? I think anyone can have an attitude. It's not all about neck rolling or finger snapping...it's even in the way that someone reacts to different situations in a negative or positive way. Be mindful of your attitude and others around you. Nobody enjoys being around someone with a negative attitude so do yourself and others a favor by having a positive attitude.
Sunday, May 19, 2013
There are always plenty of songs about love and the attraction that goes with it...the head over heels feeling and everything. But do you or I honestly know a lot of popular songs that talk about the trust aspect in love? I can't think of any but nevertheless trust is an important area of relationships that deserves some attention. Be careful to keep the trust given to you and don't give your trust to anyone who hasn't earned it. And yeah if you wanna take that relationship somewhere golden then invest in the bank of trust.
Saturday, May 18, 2013
Don't we all sometimes dread endings? Why are we sometimes so pessimistic? Why don't we just see them as new beginnings? For sure starting a new chapter is not always easy nor is ending one either. Nevertheless, make every second that changes an opportunity to do something different in a better way. Great day!
Friday, May 17, 2013
Life is very funny...there are ups and downs. One thing to remember is that forgiveness is essential. If you can't forgive yourself...you can't forgive others and the opposite is true. So try to learn to forgive yourself and others and experience the freedom. Remember that keeping is a grudge is a downhill way that leads to digging a pit for yourself.
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Love is that one 4 letter words that speaks volumes than all letters of the alphabet in any language. Love sometimes means different things to different people. Sometimes people don't even realize they are in love or have love until they lose it...so don't be a blind lover. Read the writing on the wall and then enjoy and nurture your love.
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Quitting is not the always the easiest thing to do but sometimes it is. Whenever you are faced with a challenge, think long and hard about the consequences of your decision. And why don't you decide to endure it instead of quitting? Just think about how much stronger and wiser you will be next time. Don't always take the easy way out...sometimes choose to endure when you can and when you must.
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Have you ever been told or told someone, "You have everything you need to succeed"? Well whether you have or haven't there is some truth to this statement. A lot of things that happen or do not happen to us tend to test our responses to life while teaching us lessons. But don't forget to have fun in your quest for success in any area of your life. No one knows all the rules of life but it does help to try to apply what worked for others and see if it works for you too.
Monday, May 13, 2013
When it comes to love it seems people talk about everything except compromise. Remember a relationship involves two different people who might not agree entirely on every single issue of importance. Maybe there are some people like that out there...but the majority of people in successful relationships end up consciously, unconsciously or subconsciously using the 3 C's in the process of nurturing their relationship. Ask yourself, what step can you take today towards learning to healthily compromise?
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Happy Mother's day to all the current and future moms!!! Mothers have a special job in life. They do not only deliver humans but they also play the role of lifelong nurturers. They help you to grow your roots before you branch out. They help you to grow your wings before you can fly. And to those who are playing the role of motherly figures to people who are motherless due to whatsoever reason....Kudos!!!!! as motherhood is not only equated to biology...Motherhood is divine and transcends that which we see and beyond!
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Your neighbor's problem is also yours. Don't discredit the feelings, thoughts, and actions of others. Be wise and listen. Don't only listen...help them also. In this walk of life everybody is here for somebody else. Empathy is golden and golden again and again.
Friday, May 10, 2013
There is something special about you and the way you do things. There is something special about you and the way you approach life. There is something special about you and the way you see "you" and others. Don't let that go at any cost...don't lose your history...don't lose your values. For in all that and more is the spark of creativity. Hold on to "you" and reach out with getting lost, and inspire yourself and others with the beauty of creativity in each and everything you do...Don't let go of it, as creativity is a rare commodity.
Thursday, May 9, 2013
Hi everybody! Life is easy and good, isn't it? Hahaha. Well today I just want to share with you some interesting insights. Most of these little snippets of advice run a line or two but never forget that some of these lines might do you and me some good! Happy weekend!
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
I bet a couple of us were trained to not be insecure from an early age. But for some of us maybe it was simply emphasized without any mention of the repercussions. Just think of it...if you are insecure you might consciously, unconsciously, or sub-consciously end up holding others back. So leave insecurity out of the door and say hello to a world of self-confidence that will empower you and others in a chain reaction.
Tuesday, May 7, 2013
Some of us have those moments when we think that we are old enough to cut ties with our parents. Cutting physical ties is also fine but make sure that you take care of them...and really good and even better than what you might have experienced. And don't forget to be the one to ignite their smiles daily!!!
Monday, May 6, 2013
Sometimes we travel through books, sometimes within the confines of our minds and sometimes we travel in miles. There is something fascinating about travel that involves the movement from one physical space to another. With open hearts and minds, there is so much we can learn from these new places along with the new people we will meet. Travel is golden and enriching...try it and let me know!
Sunday, May 5, 2013
Something tragic happened in my hometown this Sunday. There was a bombing at a church and about 1 person is dead and 40 something others are critically injured. No one has taken responsibility yet for the attack. My hope is that in this time the people of Arusha can gather together and help one another rise above this tragedy. I hope they can figure out what or whoever triggered this attack, and we can figure to weaken those forces, and join together as one source of strength.
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Resilience is one of those things that is important in life. There are a lot of unplanned things that happen in life, but with the hope that things will get better, we have to learn to fly against the wind in the storms of life. Think about it...resilience is sometimes all that you need when times are tough.
Friday, May 3, 2013
Everybody is from somewhere, and even if you don't know your family, you still have a family history. We always end up moving here and there in the journey of life but don't forget your family. Apart from you all carrying the same DNA, there are so many other things that you all can share along the journey of life. And for those who have a family which has no biological ties, then take pride in that too, as there are some people in life who can be just like family. These are the people who have your best interests at heart no matter what you did or did not do. Recognize these people in your life and hold on to them because they are also "family."
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Harmony has a magical tingle on my tongue. It reminds me of peace and all those good feelings but I don't hear it used that much. I think there is something wonderful about having an inner peace that leads to harmony with those around you. Let us strive for harmony wisely in everything we do. Take time to listen to the experienced and they can share with you the road to harmony. Harmony is golden my friends:)
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Disappointment is one of those things we encounter everyday. Sometimes we face big ones, and other times the disappointment seems negligible, or at least we tell ourselves that. No matter what type of disappointment you face, remember one to not over-expect stuff from yourself or others, and two don't lose hope that out of your disappointment something great will emerge.