Thoughts on Problem and Challenge Solvers

Why do we sometimes gravitate more towards negativity? It can be a good thing if you perceive it because you are a problem or challenge solver. And, even if you are then you have to make sure that you also highly focus on the positives because no matter how small they are, they could be a part of the solution to the seemingly enormous problem.

Feeding Yourself with Positivity

Don't fill your mind with negativity. Negative feelings will haunt you and bring you down. Build your mind with positivity and your muscles will grow and its fruits will bloom in due time. Be honest about the negative when you need to but don't dwell on it.

Loving vs Hating

Hate is something that can turn you into a monster. Life is not about hate. Love leads to a fullness in one's life while hate deprives an individual from the benefits of practicing love through patience, forgiveness, generosity, and more.

Watch Your Words

Examine the way you speak. Are you always negative about your life? Do you also impart that tone when talking to others about their lives? Stand back and stop. You have no right to damage your life with your negativity nor do you have the right to do that to someone else. Choose positivity today

Turning the Negatives into Positives

There will always be something or someone that is not perfect. If we train our eyes to only see and dwell on imperfections then we will be feeding our lives with negativity. Let us learn to notice the negative but focus on the positive with great appreciation so that it can move us to have the energy and willpower to turn the negatives into positives.

Reasons to Forgive your Enemies

We all have names for them...some call them enemies and some call them frenemies. Whatever you call them I am sure we can all agree that there are people in our lives who have wronged us. The cycle will never end and we might eventually end up hurting some. Here are some reasons to remind you to forgive regardless of the circumstances:

• Frees you from a cycle of negativity
• Gives you the wisdom to learn the lesson from the pain
• Reminds you that you might also need someone's forgiveness one day
• It is one of the greatest acts of love
• You never know the future as one day your enemy might turn out to be your best friend or your boss

Counting Your Blessings

Don't you sometimes hate it when someone tells you, "Count your Blessings?" In fact, for the most part in every thing that happens you can find a blessings if you look really hard. Some people are living within blessings but don't even know it because they have specialized in negativity. Don't let that person be YOU!

Negativity and rising

We all have faced negativity in certain stages of our lives...that sinking feeling. However, there is no need to fear negativity, as it is also a teacher, as someone once said, "Adversity is the greatest teacher." So when things are not going as well with people or things, don't stress, but instead take it as a training ground. Not only that, but as a gift from life to help you  to be prepared in the future for similar instances, as we all know life is sometimes a cycle, which sometimes leads to history repeating itself in many forms.